3 Bold Moves to ask for what you deserve

Hey sis,

I see you...

You're working hard.

You're showing up.

You're quietly hoping someone will notice.

But sis, recognition isn't always automatic - so we gotta ask right?
And yet the confidence to do that doesn't always come so naturally.

Let's fix that.

I am about to share something with you that may definitely have you wanting to retreat deeper into your comfort zone.

May be you consider yourself an introvert.

May be you're hoping that all the effort and dedication you put in will have opportunities coming to you instead.

But sis, let's be real, the things we really want don't normally just fall into our laps, they require some action on our part so let's go.

1. Own Your Wins (out loud)

Keep a record of your achievements. Whether it's getting the results you wanted when the odds were stacked against you; building (or ending) the relationships you were involved in; or digging deep and finding strength when you were ready to throw in the towel. Whatever it is - as my nan used to say "write it down (insert name of whatever grandchild she could remember), write it down." Evidence it. Name it and say it with your chest!

2. Know you value, Then let them know.

Sis, you are your greatest investment. You have value beyond measure. But you need to believe that for yourself and treat yourself as such. The world over, knows how to treat expensive art pieces or historical artefacts with care because they have applied value to it, so when you know your value and act like you know it, everyone else will come to the same conclusion (and if not, we step past them without missing a beat).

3. Cosy up with 'No' - It's not The End

No is not something we like to hear but definitely will here time and time again. Get comfortable with 'no' appreciating that it does not necessarily mean 'that's it', it could me 'not yet' or 'not this way'.

In order to be bold, use 'No' as a stepping stone, not a dead end. Try again, learn from the experience or come at it from a different angle.

It takes boldness to put yourself out there but as you recognise what you have done, believe in your self-worth and see 'no' as just being one step closer to a 'yes' then you'll be on your way to getting what you deserve.
And if you need someone in your corner, to help and remind you of these three things, my coaching sessions can help you prepare for that big ask.

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Until next time sis,

Walk Boldly